tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post1835591265534732349..comments2023-10-23T22:03:55.915+01:00Comments on Candycan and Co...: Don't we all want to be accepted?Candycanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-89941509698360440112010-12-03T19:39:13.353+00:002010-12-03T19:39:13.353+00:00I realised I had read Nadias poem before once I lo...I realised I had read Nadias poem before once I looked at it; it's very expressive. It's good to hear about people making progress and learning to comminicate with parts well.Candycanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-52172106168712439492010-11-30T03:18:25.293+00:002010-11-30T03:18:25.293+00:00I completely understand parts thinking they are th...I completely understand parts thinking they are the main person, we had this trouble for a long time - and still do sometimes. I have found that by focusing on each of us have roles within our system has made some parts feel less insignificant. I spend less time arguing about it being MY body - we all part of us and I found by letting go of the fights has helped me accept being multiple<br /><br />Nadia hasnt posted many of her poems and I havent got around to it but there is a small one that shows what I was talking about here - http://livingmultiple.blogspot.com/2010/05/poem.htmlMultipleMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00292993284991878239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-71177608842814052562010-11-29T23:10:29.021+00:002010-11-29T23:10:29.021+00:00I don't mind at all about the link. I would be...I don't mind at all about the link. I would be nice to have a few more people reading my blog. I guess it is a very specific subject.<br />I will have to look up some of Nadia's poetry. It's good that your parts have their own names. Some of mine do, other just want my name. They think they are the main person. LoLCandycanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-79229378784316717372010-11-27T08:25:12.058+00:002010-11-27T08:25:12.058+00:00I am so glad that you were able to seek reassuranc...I am so glad that you were able to seek reassurance from your friends. It can be scary to think you have lost a friend due to DID. <br /><br />I can relate to the times of doubt, where you think "how can this be real"? I am lucky in that my alts have a great sense of community inside & it is hard for my alts to separate themselves. Though I still have alts who have trouble settling with the idea of them being a part. Nadia in particular struggles - you can see it in her poetry.<br /><br />I also completely agree about it being fascinating. When I read about DID - or even look at my own experiences - I seem to do so with 2 mindsets - the "survivor" who lives with DID and finds it difficult & sometimes scary, and the "psych student" who is just completely curious about DID and in awe of the way our minds work.<br /><br />btw - I put a link to your blog on my Links page - I hope this is okay - if you would prefer I can take it down - just email me or leave a comment on my blogMultipleMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00292993284991878239noreply@blogger.com