tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post5432772395433642168..comments2023-10-23T22:03:55.915+01:00Comments on Candycan and Co...: My therapist is leaving me (part 2)Candycanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-74529467659956933482011-01-17T13:18:58.556+00:002011-01-17T13:18:58.556+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Candycanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-9247323609589433912011-01-17T09:33:41.707+00:002011-01-17T09:33:41.707+00:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-3588007541311124452010-12-16T20:58:37.175+00:002010-12-16T20:58:37.175+00:00She didnt want to tell me why she's going; she...She didnt want to tell me why she's going; she doesnt like to talk about herself at all. I think she likes to be a blank slate. I think thats for the best actually, but in this case I would like to know if it's because of something bad because I am worried about her and if she's just having a nice break, it would put my mind at rest.<br />I think we will talk more about what's going to happen, but I couldn't really think about that much last session. It was a lot to process.Candycanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-55777008273589013722010-12-14T23:43:01.219+00:002010-12-14T23:43:01.219+00:00This is really difficult. I'm so sorry it'...This is really difficult. I'm so sorry it's happening to you.<br /><br />Can you ask your therapist to detail why they are taking the break, and to go over it several times? It might help the different parts realise that the decision has nothing to do with them. It might also give them a chance to talk about their feelings about the break with your therapist.<br /><br />Can you use some therapy time to discuss what you want to do during your therapists break? It's perfectly natural to feel all of those conflicting emotions about their break.<br /><br />I'm sorry you self-injured.<br /><br />Please go gently,<br />CGcastorgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04560894692437345653noreply@blogger.com