tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post5276659706564185991..comments2023-10-23T22:03:55.915+01:00Comments on Candycan and Co...: How and why self harm?Candycanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-9902947199568483962012-01-28T16:30:54.749+00:002012-01-28T16:30:54.749+00:00Positive thought on self-harm? GASP - oh no! But r...Positive thought on self-harm? GASP - oh no! But really, yes, and thank you. I find cutting to be a release, a distraction from hurt, a reminder to feel. I try to make each cutting pretty so that I enjoy it afterward, not just the sensation, but the visual. Just a little cutting provides stimulation of several kinds for weeks. And if I do it purposely, with collusion from the whole system, then it doesn't build to this horrible reaction that's traumatic and needing intervention.Meronymhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12236547756894952486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-36421422751252043772012-01-17T21:54:29.264+00:002012-01-17T21:54:29.264+00:00NB Blogger is fucking up again and deleted parts o...NB Blogger is fucking up again and deleted parts of the post. I don't know why it does that! So I have added them in.<br />CCandycanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-40636958606362925742012-01-17T14:21:29.668+00:002012-01-17T14:21:29.668+00:00Thanks Ellen. Anger is one of the hardest things t...Thanks Ellen. Anger is one of the hardest things to feel. I remind myself (and Adam) that I am allowed to be angry. It does come out at the wrong things sometimes though. I'm working on that.<br /><br />Thanks Ruth, I'm glad it was helpful in some ways. I was ambivalent about if I should post it or not. Good luck with your resolution. It sounds like you deserve a bit of care after everything else that's gone before.Candycanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829509163881070649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-46839802211446311142012-01-16T05:46:21.951+00:002012-01-16T05:46:21.951+00:00I can relate to most of these. Thank you for shar...I can relate to most of these. Thank you for sharing the information. It helped me to see areas that I hadn't recognized as self neglect and harm. I am working on this year being the year I take care of myself. Take care of you.Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576170691178435057.post-29144595781201618922012-01-16T01:03:49.640+00:002012-01-16T01:03:49.640+00:00Anger is a great reaction to have - much better th...Anger is a great reaction to have - much better than self harm!<br /><br />take careEllenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15741118126298552722noreply@blogger.com